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		<title>Comment on Respect Tip: What is Yours? by david sneed</title>
		<link>http://www.respectfulworkplace.com/blog/2012/01/10/respect-tip-what-is-yours/#comment-1895</link>
		<dc:creator>david sneed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 19:37:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How about treating others the way you&#039;d want to be treated? What we forget when we hear this homily is that EVERYONE benefits, yourself included.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How about treating others the way you&#8217;d want to be treated? What we forget when we hear this homily is that EVERYONE benefits, yourself included.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Respect Tip: What is Yours? by Teresa</title>
		<link>http://www.respectfulworkplace.com/blog/2012/01/10/respect-tip-what-is-yours/#comment-1894</link>
		<dc:creator>Teresa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 14:38:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My respect tip:  Saying Please and Thank You.  Too often, people are in a hurry and when pressed for time, forget to ask instead of demanding.  Please and Thank You are such simple words and I wish everyone used them!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My respect tip:  Saying Please and Thank You.  Too often, people are in a hurry and when pressed for time, forget to ask instead of demanding.  Please and Thank You are such simple words and I wish everyone used them!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Adventures of a Cultural Tourist: Rural America by Mark Toth</title>
		<link>http://www.respectfulworkplace.com/blog/2012/01/05/adventures-of-a-cultural-tourist-rural-amercia/#comment-1875</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark Toth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 20:04:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello! Great insights - thanks for sharing &#039;em. I recently went on a trip to South America in which I had a similar experience. Lots of preconceived notions that all turned out to be dead wrong. Very humbling. Respect is a great word to keep in mind - thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello! Great insights &#8211; thanks for sharing &#8216;em. I recently went on a trip to South America in which I had a similar experience. Lots of preconceived notions that all turned out to be dead wrong. Very humbling. Respect is a great word to keep in mind &#8211; thanks!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Respect Tip: Welcome a New Employee by Melanie Sklarz</title>
		<link>http://www.respectfulworkplace.com/blog/2011/10/18/respect-tip-welcome-a-new-employee/#comment-1627</link>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Sklarz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Oct 2011 12:57:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow Derek! Thanks for adding to this rich topic. I appreciate how you mentioned the concept of introducing staff to your culture on the first day - including the recognition program!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow Derek! Thanks for adding to this rich topic. I appreciate how you mentioned the concept of introducing staff to your culture on the first day &#8211; including the recognition program!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Respect Tip: Welcome a New Employee by Derek Irvine, Globoforce</title>
		<link>http://www.respectfulworkplace.com/blog/2011/10/18/respect-tip-welcome-a-new-employee/#comment-1610</link>
		<dc:creator>Derek Irvine, Globoforce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 19:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post again, on a very important topic. I offered the following advice in a post earlier this year (http://recognizethisblog.com/2011/05/3-tips-for-onboarding-the-right-way/):

If you’re going to go to the trouble and expense of recruiting and hiring, doesn’t it make sense to be sure the new employee actually wants to stay once they start? Three tips to make sure that happens:

1)    Be ready and welcoming – Inform reception of the new hire’s name, expected time and who to call. Be sure the on-site manager is ready to welcome the person with a complete workstation (including all necessary computer equipment, working telephone, etc.) and introduce him/her around the office. Have someone lined up to take the new person to lunch.

2)   Introduce them to your culture on day 1 – Don’t just hand the new hire the employee handbook, which typically reads as guidebook to what NOT to do. Also introduce the new hire to everything that makes your company a great place to work. If you have a strategic recognition program, show the employee how it works. Make it clear your company is all about working hard and praising hard work.

3)   Have meaningful work ready for the first day – Too often the first day on a job is spent dealing with minutiae, forms, etc. Give the employee an introduction to the valuable contributions they will be making to the company. Have a project ready they can begin on day 1 to give them a flavor of the work they will be doing, but also set realistic expectations on delivery and completion based on training needs, etc.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post again, on a very important topic. I offered the following advice in a post earlier this year (<a href="http://recognizethisblog.com/2011/05/3-tips-for-onboarding-the-right-way/" rel="nofollow">http://recognizethisblog.com/2011/05/3-tips-for-onboarding-the-right-way/</a>):</p>
<p>If you’re going to go to the trouble and expense of recruiting and hiring, doesn’t it make sense to be sure the new employee actually wants to stay once they start? Three tips to make sure that happens:</p>
<p>1)    Be ready and welcoming – Inform reception of the new hire’s name, expected time and who to call. Be sure the on-site manager is ready to welcome the person with a complete workstation (including all necessary computer equipment, working telephone, etc.) and introduce him/her around the office. Have someone lined up to take the new person to lunch.</p>
<p>2)   Introduce them to your culture on day 1 – Don’t just hand the new hire the employee handbook, which typically reads as guidebook to what NOT to do. Also introduce the new hire to everything that makes your company a great place to work. If you have a strategic recognition program, show the employee how it works. Make it clear your company is all about working hard and praising hard work.</p>
<p>3)   Have meaningful work ready for the first day – Too often the first day on a job is spent dealing with minutiae, forms, etc. Give the employee an introduction to the valuable contributions they will be making to the company. Have a project ready they can begin on day 1 to give them a flavor of the work they will be doing, but also set realistic expectations on delivery and completion based on training needs, etc.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is this Respectful? by Bonnie Cox</title>
		<link>http://www.respectfulworkplace.com/blog/2011/09/08/is-this-respectful/#comment-1489</link>
		<dc:creator>Bonnie Cox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2011 21:42:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jay, couldn&#039;t agree with you more!  Well said.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jay, couldn&#8217;t agree with you more!  Well said.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Is this Respectful? by Jay Remer</title>
		<link>http://www.respectfulworkplace.com/blog/2011/09/08/is-this-respectful/#comment-1488</link>
		<dc:creator>Jay Remer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2011 18:53:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No, this is not respectful behavior. This demonstrates childishness and even bullying as this shows a lack of willingness to even listen to an alternative point of view. This total disregard for another&#039;s opinion reveals a fundamental flaw in business today - a lack of compassion. I would recommend to the board member that he make an effort to understand the president&#039;s point of view, so that when he does make a decision, it will be informed and will not simply be a knee jerk egotistical reaction. Frankly, even though this may be a hypothetical example, it also shows the Peter principle is in full force.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, this is not respectful behavior. This demonstrates childishness and even bullying as this shows a lack of willingness to even listen to an alternative point of view. This total disregard for another&#8217;s opinion reveals a fundamental flaw in business today &#8211; a lack of compassion. I would recommend to the board member that he make an effort to understand the president&#8217;s point of view, so that when he does make a decision, it will be informed and will not simply be a knee jerk egotistical reaction. Frankly, even though this may be a hypothetical example, it also shows the Peter principle is in full force.</p>
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		<title>Comment on From Toxic to Terrific: Transforming the Culture of Your Workplace by RL</title>
		<link>http://www.respectfulworkplace.com/blog/2011/02/17/from-toxic-to-terrific-transforming-the-culture-of-your-workplace-2/#comment-1487</link>
		<dc:creator>RL</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Sep 2011 18:43:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for this post... it would make a great opening tool for a management team or training!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this post&#8230; it would make a great opening tool for a management team or training!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Power of Words by Words in the Workplace * What We Say Matters - DerekIrvineGloboforce - Member Blogs - HR Blogs - HR Space from Personnel Today and Xpert HR</title>
		<link>http://www.respectfulworkplace.com/blog/2011/07/21/the-power-of-words/#comment-1470</link>
		<dc:creator>Words in the Workplace * What We Say Matters - DerekIrvineGloboforce - Member Blogs - HR Blogs - HR Space from Personnel Today and Xpert HR</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 21:07:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] recent post on The Power of Words struck a chord with me. Author Jay Remer uses the schoolyard taunt &#8220;sticks and stones may [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on The Power of Words by Derek Irvine, Globoforce</title>
		<link>http://www.respectfulworkplace.com/blog/2011/07/21/the-power-of-words/#comment-1468</link>
		<dc:creator>Derek Irvine, Globoforce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jul 2011 13:30:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Important post. That childhood playground refrain brings back so many memories. Several years ago now, as an adult, I heard someone explain the truth of that phrase (which is born out in your post). The phrase should be:

&quot;Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can break my heart.&quot;

I was glad to see you include the power of positive words, too. In terms of the workplace, think how powerful it would be to create a culture of recognition and appreciation in which employees at all levels regularly express and hear positive words - words of commendation and appreciation with specific details on why that person and their efforts are matter.

For too many years, the aphorism above has been allowed in the workplace, if not actively encouraged under the false belief that &quot;hardness&quot; - cracking the whip - inspires employees to work more.

This couldn&#039;t be farther from the truth. When employees know their work has meaning and that someone has noticed their efforts and appreciates them, they are far more motivated to continue down that path. I write passionately about this on my own blog (linked above) and am glad to see others do the same to carry this important message forward.


Your last point about carrying these skills home is critical, too. I firmly believe that being thankful and appreciative becomes a habit. Employees who may not experience in their personal lives but begin to experience regularly at work often carry these new skills in appreciation and thankfulness into their home lives as well. I wrote about this recently in a post about Zappos Culture Book in which one employee said: 

&quot;Our culture reminds me to be patient, generous, and kind. And, because I’m living that every day at work, it spills over into my personal life, and I find myself more patient, more generous, and more kind there also. In that way, the Zappos Culture not only benefits me, but it also benefits my friends and family.&quot;

That post is available in full here: http://www.recognizethisblog.com/2011/07/would-you-publish-your-company-culture-in-a-free-book/
Many thanks to you and the team at Respectful Workplace for the good work you do that is most assuredly contributing to changing the workplace attitude for the better.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Important post. That childhood playground refrain brings back so many memories. Several years ago now, as an adult, I heard someone explain the truth of that phrase (which is born out in your post). The phrase should be:</p>
<p>&#8220;Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can break my heart.&#8221;</p>
<p>I was glad to see you include the power of positive words, too. In terms of the workplace, think how powerful it would be to create a culture of recognition and appreciation in which employees at all levels regularly express and hear positive words &#8211; words of commendation and appreciation with specific details on why that person and their efforts are matter.</p>
<p>For too many years, the aphorism above has been allowed in the workplace, if not actively encouraged under the false belief that &#8220;hardness&#8221; &#8211; cracking the whip &#8211; inspires employees to work more.</p>
<p>This couldn&#8217;t be farther from the truth. When employees know their work has meaning and that someone has noticed their efforts and appreciates them, they are far more motivated to continue down that path. I write passionately about this on my own blog (linked above) and am glad to see others do the same to carry this important message forward.</p>
<p>Your last point about carrying these skills home is critical, too. I firmly believe that being thankful and appreciative becomes a habit. Employees who may not experience in their personal lives but begin to experience regularly at work often carry these new skills in appreciation and thankfulness into their home lives as well. I wrote about this recently in a post about Zappos Culture Book in which one employee said: </p>
<p>&#8220;Our culture reminds me to be patient, generous, and kind. And, because I’m living that every day at work, it spills over into my personal life, and I find myself more patient, more generous, and more kind there also. In that way, the Zappos Culture not only benefits me, but it also benefits my friends and family.&#8221;</p>
<p>That post is available in full here: <a href="http://www.recognizethisblog.com/2011/07/would-you-publish-your-company-culture-in-a-free-book/" rel="nofollow">http://www.recognizethisblog.com/2011/07/would-you-publish-your-company-culture-in-a-free-book/</a><br />
Many thanks to you and the team at Respectful Workplace for the good work you do that is most assuredly contributing to changing the workplace attitude for the better.</p>
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